How will your holidays measure up?
Monday, November 30th, 2009
Like many of you, our family marked the changes and seasons of life in both significant and small ways. Before our children could even talk we would play the game “How big is the baby?” and they would grin and stretch out their arms saying, “SO BIG!” One of our favorite traditions became recording in a doorway each child’s progress every birthday…how much they had grown was measured and marked on the wall with initials and date. It broke our heart to leave our home in Syracuse after ten years and no longer have that innocent record of how big we had grown as a family.
In many small and large ways each of us sees how we ‘measure up’ in this world. So big as a baby becomes how tall we have grown, then how independent we are, then how big is our house, our car, our income; so many ways we measure our worth through external markers and signs of success. Yet we know no matter how big we grow in the world, we never quite measure up to the need to have more, be better, shine brighter, have more toys, than our neighbors or friends. If our worth is only measured by what we have, in comparison to others, there will always be something more we are missing.
True worth is measured not by what we have or who we are, nor by the things we buy. It’s a good thing to remember as we enter this hectic season of annual holiday giving. The rush to buy and wrap and give gifts and good cheer is often overwhelming. If we don’t do it right we may not measure up to expectations, and risk losing the admiration we seek. Even more stressful is trying to always have more with less…income, time, energy. I invite you to get off the treadmill this year and take a break. The good news is that we don’t have to ‘measure-up’ at all. Advent promises us that we already have been accepted by God who “so loved the world that he gave the gift of his only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall have life” (John 3.16)…all the life we will ever need.
Our Thursday lunch bunch is discussing “What do you want for Christmas this year?”
James Moore will lead us to look for gifts that don’t come from a store; The gift of Hope, the Gift of Freedom, the Gift of Christ, the Gift of Salvation. I hope you will take a break from hectic shopping, or baking, or wrapping and take a moment to share with your family the ways we can grow together in the Spirit of Love and Grace through knowing Christ as our Lord and Savior. Come to our Tree Trim November 29 and create a decoration of a symbol of Christ to hang on your tree at home, reminding us of the reason for the season. Explore what a community village might have been like when Jesus was born to his human family at ‘a Night in Bethlehem’ on December 6. Come celebrate Jesus’ birth in story and song in our children’s pageant December 13 and stay for a festive holiday brunch in fellowship hall.
This is one of the most festive times of the year! Don’t miss an opportunity to grow ‘so big’ in your faith as we learn together how to measure our journey in discipleship together.
I’ll see U in CH_RCH.
Pastor Carol
